The 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman

 

 

Did you know this book has been on the New York Times Bestseller's List for over 283 weeks?  Well I didn't.  I happened to DVR an episode of Oprah's Life Class (on the OWN network -- channel 220) with Dr. Chapman and I watched it tonight.  It was fascinating.  There were several couples who spoke about how this book changed and improved their relationships.  What are the 5 languages?

Words of Affection -- Hearing words and reasons are important to you.
Quality Time -- You like undivided attention, quality conversation & activities.
Receiving Gifts -- You appreciate the effort behind the gift.  Gifts are visual representations of love.
Acts of Service -- Anything he/she does to ease the burden of your responsibilities.
Physical Touch -- Hugs, pats, touches convey affection & foster a sense of security.

You can go online and take a short quiz that will tell you which language best represents you.  Get your spouse to take the test as well.  Here's the link...

http://www.oprah.com/oprahs-lifeclass/Oprah-and-Dr-Gary-Chapman-The-Five-Love-Languages

What's the point of all this?  When we know "how" our partner truly feels loved by us (and visa versa) our relationship can be much more satisfying.  Often we do things for our partner THAT WE WOULD LIKE DONE FOR US.  This if often NOT what they would like us to do to show our love.  Take the test and study what the languages mean.  Now who doesn't want to strengthen their relationship?